Baby Bentley Kole’s Story

February 18th, 2013 by Heather

I had my son Bentley Kole October 12,2012 at 11:44 am he was born by c-section because he was breeched he was born feet first! He weighted 2 pounds 9.4 ounces and 15 1/2 inches long i heard him cry and i just cried because he was here i had pre-eclampsia and his heart rate was dropping so they had to deliver him at 32 weeks and 3 days it seemed like days before i got to see my little prince after 24 hours of not seeing Bentley the time came for me to finally meet my little prince he was doing so good they upped his feeding everyday it seemed like and he had lost weighted but that’s normal they said finally the first day i got to see my little man i got to do kangaroo care i was so happy i almost cried he was gaining his weight back! i got the call at 4 in the morning of October 21,2012 to come to the hospital Bentley is sick he has something called NEC i get there and he is hooked up to all kinds of things oxygen,suctioning tube, they had to give him dopamine to keep his blood pressure stable enough to get him to TC.Thompson it took them hours for them to get to him to transfer him to the children’s hospital and when i got there they were nothing they could do he was in shock from the ride and i fell out i couldn’t be losing half of my world he took his last breath in my arms and that’s when my whole world was changed forever losing Bentley has made me a different person i don’t like the new normal he is on my mind 24/7 i go through my head with what if i did this and what if i did that he would be here with me and it wouldn’t hurt so bad MOMMY LOVES YOU BENTLEY KOLE i wished they would have sent him to a children’s hospital when he was born and why did they check him for that if it was a possibility premature babies get NEC especially if he stopped growing and was measuring at 28/29 weeks and i was 32 weeks and 3 days

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2 responses to “Baby Bentley Kole’s Story”

  1. Shannon says:

    Hello Heather,
    I just read your story and I am so sorry to hear of your loss. He was a beautiful little boy! I posted baby Malorie’s story a few days ago right above yours. This horrible disease happens so fast, my little girl was gone in 12 hours. It all felt like a dream, like I was going to wake up and it would all be over. I hate the new normal in my life as well. I talk to Malorie daily and my heart aches for her all the time. I wish my baby would have been transported to childrens hospital as well. I think she would have received better care and possibly nec would have been caught sooner avoiding all the damage that was done to her bowels. Please feel free to email me if your are in need of some support on this very difficult road we all face.

  2. Adam says:

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